Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Here’s How To Attain Your Dream Career

Most of us leave high school after graduation choosing courses that cover a wide range of job opportunities. At the young age of 18 we have very little idea as to what we want to be in the future. We have no idea what we would enjoy working at.

There are of course some lucky few who have always known what their career path should be. It’s been in their mind for many years and it’s just a matter of following through on where they would like to be eventually.

For others the going is not that straight forward. It would be different if we had access to a large amount of money. Then it wouldn’t matter what we did. We could always change course at a later stage. Sadly, though, most of us have to work for our basic living costs and to be able to survive in a cut-throat world.

Then we graduate and realise that we should have taken a different path entirely. At this stage it is impossible to go back to school and do it all over again. We have to go out to work above anything else. What happens to us? But it’s not necessarily the end of the world. There may be a way to solve this dilemma.

Personality tests are becoming increasingly popular among people entering the workforce. These tests are designed to establish what the taker’s most desired career path might be. On the surface, this sounds like a good idea. We sometimes have dreams that are not in line with who we are.

Besides this we should also give ourselves a chance to test the unknown. After all our capabilities could be far ranging and may not initially point us in the right direction. We could have hidden strengths that only reveal themselves when the need arises. Introverts might do well in a career in sales. How will we know what we will excel in unless we get the chance to dabble in it.

It might sometimes seem that we will lead happier lives if we stick to what we think are our strengths and what we are most comfortable with. Yet part of us will always remain unsatisfied if we limit our horizons because we feel we need to conform. It could be that one day we wake up feeling great regret that we have missed out on opportunities. This is one thing we would want to avoid at all costs.

While growing up we depend on our parents to look after our survival needs. Over time we learn to cope with the demands life gives us. Our survival skills can only get us so far in the adult world. We simply carry on and endure but often we become aware of our anxieties.

We need to be careful that the choice of the career wasn’t based solely on the need to be able to get through day by day. It is important to overcome our fears. We need courage to find what fits our desires rather than what makes us feel safe. Courage is what is needed when choosing a career.

If we cannot afford to let go of our comfortable job because it pays the bills, then start small with the career that really speaks to you. The World Wide Web offers many opportunities to hone and develop our hidden strengths.

As we gain the respect of other people we will find that job offers will slowly start to trickle in. Take what we can and slowly start to let go of the other things that we don’t really enjoy.

If we keep our eyes on the main prize we will soon find ourselves doing exactly what we want. And that, my friends, is the secret to getting our dream job!

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